can't find the post about narcassists...can someone remember who posted about that?

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Registered: 08-30-2010
can't find the post about narcassists...can someone remember who posted about that?
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Mon, 11-08-2010 - 12:14pm

I found whoever posted about narcassists very helpful to remind me why I should NOT miss exAP.

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Registered: 04-20-2009

If you want to look up a particular topic or key word, you can go to the "find topics, message boards, people" box that is right at the top.

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Registered: 11-22-2009

Not sure if this what you meant, but Lovin posted it the other day.

Narcissist serial cheaters

A typical reason for infidelity is that one spouse may be a narcissist who often becomes a serial cheater. The narcissist is most likely to have many affairs and will pursue anyone they can manipulate with their boundless words and actions.
Narcissists are self-absorbed and tend to be highly charming. They have a constant need for admiration. They view all events in terms of how the events impact them and them alone. They are master manipulators and feel an “emotional high” with each new conquest. Their behavior is often impulsive which can appear exciting. These individuals lack compassion unless it helps them achieve their goals. They are unwilling to see or consider anything from another person's viewpoint. They will continue the emotional control with a target until the relationship becomes too burdensome.

Be where you are; otherwise you will miss your life. ~ Buddha
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Registered: 08-30-2010

Thanks Iddy!

I am going to print this off for future reference and when I'm missing exAP I will remind myself why I am so much better off.

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Registered: 01-18-2010

It was me....it is good in so much as that you do not take things this "type" of man does, not all A havers are this type but many, many, are. Use the article so that you realize it was not so personal towards you, the cruel things they said and done.

Luvin
Yo Soy EL Capitan de Mi Vida