Can't get through this! Help!
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Can't get through this! Help!
| Sat, 02-28-2004 - 2:26pm |
So, I broke NC with OM. Only made it 2 days this time. He says he misses me so much, and will marry me as soon as I leave my H. I know if I actually did that, I might regret it months from now. But, I can't stand the thought of never seeing OM again. It's only been 6 days since I saw him, and I miss him so much. I don't know how to re-commit to my H, and try to make this work when all of my love and energy is with OM. I don't do anything but cry. I want to be with him so badly. I really don't know how to get through this. The doctor actually put me on Zoloft, but I don't think that will mend a broken heart.

Perhaps dealing with the facts rather then the fantasy will help you, ONLY 2.5 percent of Marriages between affair partiners last long term, less then 5 percent last one year.
I don't know your history but I do know that once you and the OM get together in the real world rather then the sneaky thrill seeking affair fantasy world a lot of what you think you have will vanish and you will be left with the personal baggage that allowed to get into an affair and a man that has no problem screwing other mens wifes.
As they say nothing kills an affair faster then being together 24/7.
Good luck
Jazzdiva