Can't take the STRESS!!!!

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Registered: 02-23-2009
Can't take the STRESS!!!!
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Thu, 10-15-2009 - 11:00am

So I am on Day 6 of NC. Really its him saying he is done trying to be with me the a send off with a see ya later text. We work together so this is all hard. he couldn't get over the fact that after three months of me telling him I just wanted to be friends . he really thought I would come crawling again. For what? To be made of fool of.


Just can't take this stress because we do work together, and trying to have a baby. I have an important thing I need confirmation on and I emailed it to him yesterday. very short email nothing probing. I know he is busy with a lot of other stuff but its been now over a day and he still won;t answer this work related question.


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Registered: 09-25-2006
Thu, 10-15-2009 - 11:58am
Don't write him again.
Onward and upward.
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Registered: 02-23-2009
Thu, 10-15-2009 - 12:04pm

seriously I know he is in total dick mode. I did just march into his office ask the stupid question that he only could ask answer and then said is it that hard and walked out. I played cool because he is a higher up. he is punishing me. he made a fool out of me when he

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Registered: 02-05-2009
Thu, 10-15-2009 - 2:50pm

Hi jen,

Definitely as little communication as you can manage with this loser. His poor little ego is badly bruised right now, and he can't see past that.

If you absolutely need an answer from him you can go ahead and ask in person but if I were you I would not make any references at ALL to the affair (re: saying 'is it that hard') That's not going to help you in the long run.

From one xAP coworker to another I totally agree and understand about the stress level of having to work with xAP. At some point you have to tell yourself that you're not going to allow it to take over your life; you have just as much a right to be there as he does.

hugs,

trixie xo



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