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|Mon, 11-05-2012 - 1:05pm|
Sorry that I haven't been on for awhile, just been busy or not been able to check in. I am back on fb, I keep track of a lot of my friends where we used to live on there and I just couldn't give it up. I have blocked xap and this time I am determined to keep it that way. I am just trying to work on myself, figure out why I keep going back to this guy that is no good for me over and over again. I know a lot has to do with me being very insecure. For a long time I used my marriage, which was not and is still not in the best place, as an excuse to cheat. No matter how bad it was or is, my H did and does not deserve that. The state of my marriage is really mostly my fault because once I started the A, I checked out. I was planning on leaving my H and this was going to be my "exit affair". We were going to fall madly and deeply in love and I was going to leave my H and we were going to be together forever. That wasn't the case obviously. All xap sees is a ready, willing and able female. At the end of the day, I DO love my H and he loves me. I am working on making my marriage work and things are starting to improve. I have to look in the mirror and tell myself I am beautiful, I am worth it. I joined the gym and I am trying to work on my self esteem issues. I have a long way to go, but I am worth it. It is so hard, but I know in time it will get easier. Thank you all for being here for me, I have no one else to talk to and I need to get this stuff off my chest.