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Registered: 09-30-2011
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Tue, 12-11-2012 - 9:22pm

Hi everyone it has been it has been a week since I last posted. I have been really strong and have had JAM who is almost twice my age on complete ignore. He still tries to engage me by saying hi or waving but I just walk on by. He pretty much just stares at me any chance he gets like when I am waiting for the bus it's creepy. I just keep ignoring it gets annoying like I wanna tell him to eff off but it wont do any good it will just feed his ego. So I just keep shinining him on I think he is getting angry about it but oh well. I feel stronger than ever and if he thinks he can try to intimidate or scare me he is wrong. I will continue to walk with my head held high and be the strong woman that I am. I have to admit some days are hard. 

                                                                                                                                                        Peace Love Andie

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Community Leader
Registered: 11-04-2012
Tue, 12-11-2012 - 9:35pm

Very good, Andie

I suspected he might started get angry as you ignore him.  Keep on doing what you are doing.  I know it's hard not to want to cut him a new one, but that'll just show him that he can get a rise out of you...just with a different approach.

Well, he can't no matter the tactic.  Too sad.



Community Leader...EAS

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Registered: 09-30-2011
Wed, 12-12-2012 - 9:12am

 Hi Clarity and thanks for the reply. I made a mistake in my post I meant to say I am half his age LOL. Anyways I will just keep on keepin on ignoring this annoying whiny immature middle aged JAM. This is all a game to him he tells me run along child or go do your laundry woman. I think that is so disrespectful. Why cant he just leave me and my family alone. I will keep on being strong in the mean time. Sometimes I just don't get it why is he doing this to me and his childish behavior....

                                                   Peace Love hugs Andie