To: CL Chris.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
To: CL Chris.
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Fri, 02-06-2004 - 2:35pm
HI! Chris! I am sure that you remember me since I have been posting here the last 2 years off and on. My A is over , I'd moved to a diff. state and even though he still emails me and tells me that he misses me I never answer him anymore. The pain is gone so is the love I felt for him at one time , and so is the thought that I couldn't live w/o him. However, the reason I am posting to you is, I've read your post in which you stated that :"single but living together, once married.". I assume to each other. See, I am in the same situation my H divorced me when he found out about my A but he never moved out maybe for a week or so and now we are back together again completly , well almost completly since I don't love him the way I did before the A but we have been married for a longtime and I just don't want to leave him , he is very good to me but of course sex is not good, never been, that is why I had the A the first place, even though I was never looking for it, it just happend. My question is: are you two planning on getting married again??? My H wants us to get married again. Actually XH. LOL. I just don't know what to do????? If your case is the same , would you tell me your thoughts on it??? THy , Blue.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: bluesky499
Fri, 02-06-2004 - 3:22pm

Blue, the reason for our divorce had little to do with my affair.