Cleaning House

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Registered: 06-17-2010
Cleaning House
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Mon, 08-16-2010 - 7:14am

I wrote a long entry last night and thought it had posted, but alas - the preview screen is not my friend.

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Registered: 07-20-2010
In reply to: lellibee
Mon, 08-16-2010 - 4:44pm
I was talking to my best friend this weekend about how awful it was being rejected by him and she told me "Rejection is God's protection." I am beginning to see that. I am surprised at all the things I was willing to overlook in him. I am also a Christian but haven't really acted like it in a long time. He didn't even believe in God. The one discussion we had about it he made fun of my belief. I don't understand how I wasn't even concerned about something that important to me. I went to a Christian high school. And he seemed to get a kick out of saying look at what the christian school girl is doing with me.
I am glad to hear you are looking back to your faith. For the first time in a long time, I prayed and read my Bible this morning. And then when I logged on your post was the first one I"happened" to read. It really helped me. I know I will still struggle have even struggled today but I also know that God has a better plan for me and you if we will put our trust in Him and not a man that is just using us
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Registered: 06-17-2010
In reply to: lellibee
Mon, 08-16-2010 - 7:50pm
My situation was a little different from most - my H knew from the beginning about my relationship with my AP - our marriage had been over for a long time. I don't think it's an appropriate thing in every situation (telling your H) - whatever you have peace with is what is right for you. You have come a long way!
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Registered: 06-17-2010
In reply to: lellibee
Mon, 08-16-2010 - 7:54pm

Willow,

It is an amazing thing to realize how befuddled we were during the A - completely stoned on the fog. I too have only just begun to read scriptures and pray on daily basis and I love the strength it fills me with. Good luck in your journey!

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Registered: 01-18-2010
In reply to: lellibee
Mon, 08-16-2010 - 8:36pm
How are you? Nice to see you posting. Please let me know how you are doing when you get a moment.
Luvin
Yo Soy EL Capitan de Mi Vida
Luvin
Yo Soy EL Capitan de Mi Vida
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Registered: 07-20-2010
In reply to: lellibee
Tue, 08-17-2010 - 1:23pm

Hi Luvin,

I am okay, I guess. I have been having a bad few days. I take steps forward but then more steps back. I just want to be over it, now. It seems to be taking to long. I thought at this point I would be farther along. I have not attempted to contact him again. So I guess I should be happy with that.

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Registered: 03-17-2010
In reply to: lellibee
Tue, 08-17-2010 - 11:09pm

Dear Everyone,


This decision, to tell or not to tell, is very hard and i strugged with this.

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