??? Closure question for all...........
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??? Closure question for all...........
| Sun, 04-18-2004 - 12:56am |
If you didn't expect it and suddenly were given the opportunity to see your xMM/OM/OW (affair partner) for the purpose of YOUR CLOSURE, what questions would you ask? What would you want to tell him or her? What would give you closure and that peace of mind to walk away for the rest of your life?

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This really bothered me at the end of my affair, too. He went back to his normal life and his wife was oblivious to the fact that he had an affair. I, however, was left out in the cold. He acted like he was totally fine and over me and like things were going fine between he and his wife and I was miserable. When I complained about this to him, he basically said that I didn't have any rights about this but his wife did because she was his wife. Cold, but true. It was really painful to hear, but that was one of the comments he made that started me on the path to realizing the affair was over.
Karry
Karry - - who is learning to embrace life on her own raising her miracle, Carley Paige
NRE, while my affair partners may not number several there were a few. I also married one of them and I'm still with him. I have been open and honest with him as you have with your CW. As for the 'other' partners, I still occasionally here from them. Sean knows about them and our now friendships. They know I'm not leaving him for anyone and he knows that.
By being open and aboveboard, I have been able to continue my relationship with Sean. Had I lied to him about it or withheld my affair from him, I would not be comfortable within myself, therefore unable to be comfortable with him. We're at 13+ years even with the affair with GB in the middle of it all.
BTW, GB called yesterday asking for Sean or Chris. It was for business so I went ahead and answered. He asked how I was. I told him of my recent surgery. Then we went on to the business at hand. Nothing more. I felt no spark,
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