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Wed, 11-10-2010 - 6:05pm

because he's fat & ugly

Your vision will become clear only when you look into your heart... Who looks outside, dreams. Who looks inside, awakens. I started looking inside and went NC October 15, 2010
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Wed, 11-10-2010 - 6:05pm
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Wed, 11-10-2010 - 6:06pm

bwwwaaaaaaahhhhh!!!!!! That's as good a reason as any! Thank you for making me laugh Michelle - I needed that today!

Bodhi

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Wed, 11-10-2010 - 6:12pm

hahhahah jk jk....

You're so SMART. You're getting to be SO STRONG!!!!

At first blush

Your vision will become clear only when you look into your heart... Who looks outside, dreams. Who looks inside, awakens. I started looking inside and went NC October 15, 2010
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Wed, 11-10-2010 - 6:14pm

shhhh...yes...yes he is...hahahah :)

Your vision will become clear only when you look into your heart... Who looks outside, dreams. Who looks inside, awakens. I started looking inside and went NC October 15, 2010
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Wed, 11-10-2010 - 6:14pm

Alice,

Because YOU ARE NOT A VICTIM.

You asked this SAME question of the board Oct. 26. Here is the link:

http://forums.ivillage.com/t5/General-Discussions/Why-can-t-I/m-p/115982067

Please read, re-read and re-read some more ... and then MOVE ON and LOOK INWARDS to YOUR MOTIVATIONS FOR STAYING STUCK - YOU ARE CHOOSING TO STAY IN THIS STUCK PLACE ALICE.

(all said in my most compassionate & caring voice that is trying to get you to STOP obsessing over reasons you ought to be able to break No contact)

We all would have 1000 and 1 reasons for wanting to write that ONE LAST email ... but we've collectively recognized that YOU WILL NEVER EVER find answers with the xAP, you WILL NEVER EVER be provided with all those "oh, that makes-sense" reasons for why things happened the way that they did ...

((HUGS))

TU.

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Wed, 11-10-2010 - 6:15pm

Hahhahahhah

Your vision will become clear only when you look into your heart... Who looks outside, dreams. Who looks inside, awakens. I started looking inside and went NC October 15, 2010
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Wed, 11-10-2010 - 6:17pm
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Wed, 11-10-2010 - 6:19pm
Close your eyes and envision this, Alice: a bald pencil. ;)
Oct. 12, 2010 -- began my personal search and rescue mission.
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Wed, 11-10-2010 - 6:25pm

HAHHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAH @ BALDING SOMETHING FIERCE!!! hahhahahahahahahh Woo! Mine too!!! hahahha.

Good! Im so Glad!

I relate to the STRONG EMO STUFF COMING OUT right now - and man If I learned anything the hard way it was what SHARING IT WITH HIM got me.

ZERO. NADA. ZIP.

Its amazing how- we all have our own STUFF we're dealing with - and how in an instant - YOU posted this...and I was feeling my own crappy BS - and suddenly - Im laughing at the sillyness of my own "drama" in my head...yet feeling this BOND with how GREAT you are. Bonding with the REAL you is AWESOME!

We aren't our behaviors of these women - who

Your vision will become clear only when you look into your heart... Who looks outside, dreams. Who looks inside, awakens. I started looking inside and went NC October 15, 2010

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