Coming to terms with some things
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Coming to terms with some things
| Tue, 02-08-2011 - 7:32pm |
Thank you all for your kind welcome back and words of support.
| Tue, 02-08-2011 - 7:32pm |
Thank you all for your kind welcome back and words of support.
You will discover many more reasons as to why you entered the affair as you navigate through your healing journey. This post is a great start, the revealtions you have today will evolve into more revelations about yourself that will open yourself up to knowing yourself on a better level. You will need to dig deep as to why you accepted bad behaviour from him and yourself but you can do it, your post shows me you are already questioning the why's in regards to you which is so important. The focus on you is very important and it sounds to me that you are ready for that focus. I am very happy you are back WWW :)
How do I find what was missing?
I've been in T for 2 years!!
Happiness comes from within, WIWWM. You will never find it somewhere outside of yourself. Keep digging and obviously keep going to therapy. The answer will come when you least expect it.
I am sorry you are sad today, but that's par for the course. And about that cake? It was toxic and a good thing you've thrown it out. ;-)
What -
Have you read the book "The Missing Piece"? If not, read it - it will take you about 2 minutes. The moral of the story is that you are NOT missing a piece. You have to roll along all by yourself and smooth out those rough edges. The more you move forward like this, the easier you will roll. Shel Silverstein is amazing. It's OK to be sad. You're human. But work on finding the happiness within yourself. And like my Zenseday post, be patient :)
Bodhi
I agree with Iddy - happiness must come from within... Maybe you have to change your thought pattern and say this :
I love myself.
I accept myself as I am.
I'm happy and content.
The world is at my fingertips.
I am open to change.
I do not resent