Concerns

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Registered: 08-15-2009
Concerns
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Wed, 05-19-2010 - 12:47pm

Hi All,


Well....I've been reading a few posts lately and am amazed at how so many of you feel the same way I do.

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-15-2009
In reply to: mickey925
Wed, 05-19-2010 - 1:58pm

I'm at my office and got a call....wish I didn't think 'oh, maybe it's him (ex-MM)' when I pick it up.

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Registered: 01-15-2009
In reply to: mickey925
Wed, 05-19-2010 - 4:30pm

Hi (((Mickey))),


You and I have posted to each other back and forth some months ago and I am so sorry to see you still struggling so much and my heart truely breaks for you.

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Registered: 08-15-2009
In reply to: mickey925
Fri, 05-21-2010 - 11:59am

Hi Gullable,


Thanks for responding.

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-20-2009
In reply to: mickey925
Fri, 05-21-2010 - 12:07pm

Mickey,
I went through a 'regular' divorce, sans A, and I can tell you that it fn sucks. You have a lot to deal with and my heart goes out to you. Since you have so much to handle, you have to be even MORE vigilant about doing the right things to minimize your pain. Stay strong, stay focused. Know that that fear of 'being alone' will soon fade and be replace with optimism and enthusiasm for your future. I promise.

God bless,
Dee

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Registered: 08-15-2009
In reply to: mickey925
Fri, 05-21-2010 - 12:29pm

Hi Deeulta,


Thank you so much....you give me hope.

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Registered: 04-15-2010
In reply to: mickey925
Fri, 05-21-2010 - 12:49pm

I remember feeling that way when my H moved out almost a year ago. I tell you now, I love the freedom. I love the space and strength I have found. I take pride in being able to take care of my own needs. I feel so good. I wouldn't have picked this path to walk - but like so many experiences in my life - the fear of it is was worse than the 'reality' of it.

You will grow & learn so much that will serve you for the rest of your life.

And we will be here for you.

TU.

LC/NC since April 14, 2010
LC/NC since April 14, 2010

"I can be changed by what happens to me. But I refuse to be reduced by it."
— Maya Angelou
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Registered: 05-10-2010
In reply to: mickey925
Fri, 05-21-2010 - 3:07pm

TU,


"The fear of it was worse than the reality of it".