About 10 days ago my MM and I decieded to end our A. My DH had found out about MM about 2 yrs ago while we were seperated, and I had promised never to see him again. ( I broke the promise a few times) Well, we decided to end the A, I was too afraid of getting caught and knew that the time spent with MM was not worth what I might lose. However, we did continue to e-mail each other. Most of it was quite innocent, but one line was that he still missed me and stillloved and desired me. I received a phone call this am at work. It seems that his wife found all our e-mails from the past 3 weeks. These detailed most of our relationship, how we loved each other and how it must end etc., etc. I have no idea how she found them, except he must have been super careless. Especially considering that's how my DH found out, I was careless and I warned MM of the pitfalls of e-mail.
Unfortunately, mostly we used my work email which shows my first and last name, and company. So I am sure I will be hearing from a very irate woman in the next few days, or hours.
I'm still bewildered on how he could be so careless,unless he wanted to be caught, to clear his own consiceince or to be sure that we did end it and that there would be no going back.