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| Wed, 12-22-2004 - 7:21am |
I have been a lurker on this board since all hell broke loose in August. I have used others stories for inspiration to get through the most difficult times of hurt and confusion. But now I really need help because I don't know what to do.
Here is a brief run down of my story. I had been seeing a MM for six months when his wife suspected something and got his cell phone records and saw how much he we talked.We have known eatch other for over three years and we work together. He has been having problems in his marriage since the begining and we started getting closer and talking more January of this year. At first it started out as just talking we would talk about how nice it would be if we were together and all of the places we would go and the things we would do. Well in August she called me, my boss and tried to get me introuble because I had been talking to her husband she tried to get him fired. We played it off because all she had is proof that we talked and nothing else. He stopped calling me we didn't see or talk to each other for three months but last month he started coming to my office if he needed help on anything and and one thing led to another and we slept together again a few weeks ago. I thought it would only be one last time and I wouldn't hear from him again but he has been calling more and coming by more.
The confusing part is I talked to him the other day he told me his parents are coming into town for christmas this week and he wants to talk to me about something he told me that it is nothing bad but he wouldn't give me a hint. After that conversation he called me thirty minutes later to tell me that he needed to hear my voice agin because he was missing me and that he has been missing me for a very long time. I am confused because I didn't hear from him fir three months and it hurt so bad and it has taken me all this time to somewhat get over it but there are so many unhealed emotions and I can't picture myself with anyone but him. I don't know what to do I love him so much but I don't want to get hurt again.
I'm sorry for going on and on and on but if anyone can help me I would really appreciate it.
Thanks

Luv
Why would you sleep with someone that has not talk to you in months?? Not sure what advise you are looking for but if his wife knows and he is still with her then I dont think he has any intentions of leaving. Sounds like he still wants his cake on the side.
Lov
I suggest that you protect yourself and tell this man not to contact you again until he can put divorce papers in your hands or you could end up getting your heart handed to you over and over again.
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