Thank you so much for stopping by and wishing me well, especailly on this day of sadness for you. You have no idea what that means to me. As I told you, you had been heavy on my mind of late and so I was happy to see your name in this thread. I am so happy to have been able to help you in any way my friend. You have been an inspiration to me too. You always act with such integrity, and warmth....and your ability to express yourself and your feelings is something which I envy.
Thanks for the claps...i hope they came with a dance! :) Thanks to for all the prayers...not only now, but since day 1. I am feeling better, and it is because of the care and compassion I have received from wonderful people like you.
As I have said before, I am so proud of you and how hard you have worked not only to end this A, but to change yourself into the woman you strive to be so that this behavior will never again be tolerated...and this pain will never again be felt.
I hope you have a better day today...you are in my thoughts peace&light Foggy
Dear Luvin, The felling of specialness is more than mutual my friend. I have been so happy to be accepted as an important and contributing member of this wonderful community! And you know that so much of my ability to be open and honest comes from fine examples such as yourself. Your ability to share with me moved me into a new direction of healing...and it came at such an important, and vulnerable time in my life. For that I thank you so much.
You have been a great source of healing and hope for me. I am proud of you everyday for what you accomplish. I am humbled to know that I have somehow touched you.
Thanks for taking the time to celebrate with me....next stop vetville where I will be so happy to reside with the best of you lovely ladies!!!
Peace&light and good luck with the job hunt...sending hiring vibes your way Foggy
Thanks UBM! I pretty much think the same of you! I was out of touch this weekend and was unable to respond to your reset post....but I just wanted to tell you that I am proud of all the steps you have taken to heal yourself. And while I am sure that nothing really GOOD ever comes out of breaking NC, I am glad you learned from it none the less. I know that you were given some great advice and support from the women here....and had bonus care from the hands of the wonderful Bodhi...and because of that I knew you would be ok!
But thanks for posting in here and celebrating with me. I had been wondering how you were doing as we hand not "seen" you since that post. I really apreciate your words, and love the picture!
Michelle! well you can all make the checks payable to Dr. Foggy and send them too.... LOL! You are right, it has not always been easy to stick around especially during certain times (such as when I logged in to wish everyone happy thanksgiving and ran into a whole thread dedicated to the dickless...) but the help and healing I have both received and have been able to give has made it all worth it!
And you....forcing me to pop my tough love cherry...:) I am glad you have taken to heart anything I have said. I know you have it in you, and I am so happy to see the beginning of calm...and truly letting it go come over you since the incident last week.
Continue to make those strides my friend...with each one you are closer to freedom!
ILE, Thank you so much for your words! I do have so much concern for others, almost to much at times and it makes it hard. I am glad that you have benefited from anything that I have had to say. I strive to remember the calm, loving,and genuine person I was before I got involved in this soul-crushing experience of the A... I am happy that he is starting to come back...after lots of hard work and help from the hands on this board.
Keep sticking around and working hard...and you will get yourself back too! You are welcome and thanks again for your words. peace&light Foggy
Congratulations Foggy! :) You worked so hard to get where you are! I admire your strength, insight and dedication to being true to yourself and helping inspire others on their own journey!
Sorry for joining in so late. I want to extend a BIG CONGRATULATIONS to you on becoming a Supertweener, you are an asset to this board and your wisdom and kind nature has helped many of us. I want to also personally thank you for your incredible support through a challenging time in my life.
Since some good hearted posts need bumping up anyway I will use this oppurtunity to finish some thanks to you late comers (its ok...i partied all week)!
Cait, Thank you for your kind words and for sharing in my celebration. I am also happy to see you round here. I was getting worried about you since we had not heard from you. I am so proud of the progress you have made. Your early posts hit me so hard....and your pain still to this day resonates deeply with me. And if anything, I can be an example to you of how to make it out, well then its an honor. Its funny you mention being dedicated to being true to myself. When the fog wore off and I realized how much of my kind, good hearted, and peaceful nature I gave away completely during my A It made it easy to never want to do it again.
I wish you well on your journey...keep us updated and stay strong! peace&light Foggy
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Thank you so much for stopping by and wishing me well, especailly on this day of sadness for you. You have no idea what that means to me. As I told you, you had been heavy on my mind of late and so I was happy to see your name in this thread. I am so happy to have been able to help you in any way my friend. You have been an inspiration to me too. You always act with such integrity, and warmth....and your ability to express yourself and your feelings is something which I envy.
Thanks for the claps...i hope they came with a dance! :) Thanks to for all the prayers...not only now, but since day 1. I am feeling better, and it is because of the care and compassion I have received from wonderful people like you.
As I have said before, I am so proud of you and how hard you have worked not only to end this A, but to change yourself into the woman you strive to be so that this behavior will never again be tolerated...and this pain will never again be felt.
I hope you have a better day today...you are in my thoughts
peace&light
Foggy
The felling of specialness is more than mutual my friend. I have been so happy to be accepted as an important and contributing member of this wonderful community! And you know that so much of my ability to be open and honest comes from fine examples such as yourself. Your ability to share with me moved me into a new direction of healing...and it came at such an important, and vulnerable time in my life. For that I thank you so much.
You have been a great source of healing and hope for me. I am proud of you everyday for what you accomplish. I am humbled to know that I have somehow touched you.
Thanks for taking the time to celebrate with me....next stop vetville where I will be so happy to reside with the best of you lovely ladies!!!
Peace&light and good luck with the job hunt...sending hiring vibes your way
Foggy
But thanks for posting in here and celebrating with me. I had been wondering how you were doing as we hand not "seen" you since that post. I really apreciate your words, and love the picture!
peace&light
Foggy
Michelle!
well you can all make the checks payable to Dr. Foggy and send them too.... LOL!
You are right, it has not always been easy to stick around especially during certain times (such as when I logged in to wish everyone happy thanksgiving and ran into a whole thread dedicated to the dickless...) but the help and healing I have both received and have been able to give has made it all worth it!
And you....forcing me to pop my tough love cherry...:) I am glad you have taken to heart anything I have said. I know you have it in you, and I am so happy to see the beginning of calm...and truly letting it go come over you since the incident last week.
Continue to make those strides my friend...with each one you are closer to freedom!
LOVE, LIGHT, AND PEACE RIGHT BACK AT YOU GIRL!
Thank you so much for your words! I do have so much concern for others, almost to much at times and it makes it hard. I am glad that you have benefited from anything that I have had to say. I strive to remember the calm, loving,and genuine person I was before I got involved in this soul-crushing experience of the A... I am happy that he is starting to come back...after lots of hard work and help from the hands on this board.
Keep sticking around and working hard...and you will get yourself back too! You are welcome and thanks again for your words.
peace&light
Foggy
Sorry for joining in so late. I want to extend a BIG CONGRATULATIONS to you on becoming a Supertweener, you are an asset to this board and your wisdom and kind nature has helped many of us. I want to also personally thank you for your incredible support through a challenging time in my life.
Love, Hugs and Blessings to you Foggy
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xxxxx
Jane
NC/LC since January 28, 2010
http://secretlifeofjane.wordpress.com/
OK OK i am sooooo late on this thread,
New Choices, New Chapter,
New Challenges,
Cait,
Thank you for your kind words and for sharing in my celebration. I am also happy to see you round here. I was getting worried about you since we had not heard from you. I am so proud of the progress you have made. Your early posts hit me so hard....and your pain still to this day resonates deeply with me. And if anything, I can be an example to you of how to make it out, well then its an honor. Its funny you mention being dedicated to being true to myself. When the fog wore off and I realized how much of my kind, good hearted, and peaceful nature I gave away completely during my A It made it easy to never want to do it again.
I wish you well on your journey...keep us updated and stay strong!
peace&light
Foggy
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