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| Wed, 10-13-2004 - 10:29am |
I know I would not have wanted a divorce if I didn't have an affair and met this girl. I would have continued on in my boring, loveless, sexless marriage. The marriage offers other comforts such as financial security, being with my kids and a committed wife. NOw that I have been with the girlfriend I realize all the love and passion my marriage was lacking. MY wife and I got married right out of college. We were highschool sweethearts. SOme part of me beleives we got married becauses it seemed like the right thing to do not becasue we were in love. I feel our relationship is more like a brother /sister relationship. I worry because of the way the relationship started with the girlfriend and all the other complicating factors that it won't work out and I will have no one. I feel like it is just impossible to stop talking and seeing her and I'm not sure I want to. If I work with her again there is no way I can end it. My wife siad she will seek a divorce if I decide to work with her again. Financially I don't have many options so I may be forced to. I have read other posts. I know people know the pain and anxiety I am feeling as I contemplate cutting things off for good with the girlfriend. advice?

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For everyone's sake, please make a decision and stick with it.
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