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Registered: 07-17-2004
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Tue, 11-02-2010 - 1:14am

Hi everyone :)

Over the weekend I was having a relaxing time with my family when one of my family member starting asking me if I had talked with the xap.

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Registered: 04-20-2009
Tue, 11-02-2010 - 12:45pm

Jen,

Wow.

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Registered: 01-18-2010
Tue, 11-02-2010 - 1:16pm
Kudos to ya!! Friends and/or fam sometimes do not see us A's changing or they are just used to seeing us act a fool. They can be our toughest critics...outside of ourselves of course. But u held strong n hard. Proud of ya. I missed the stuff Dee just mentioned but I will look for it...in the meantime, celebrate this little accomplishment. Treat yourself some kind of way. Blessings to ya!
Luvin
Yo Soy EL Capitan de Mi Vida
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Registered: 07-17-2004
Tue, 11-02-2010 - 8:02pm
Thank you Dee:)

Focusing on my actions and behaviours is a turning point for me. Being accountable for what I say and what I do has been such a powerfull feeling. It was great to not feel as stuck in a pattern of behaviours. I am enjoying growing and having much more healthy conversations with people. It's all a work in progress:)

Have a nice evening:)
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Registered: 07-17-2004
Tue, 11-02-2010 - 8:09pm
Thank you luvin! It's a step in a healthier direction and I will keep working on it. I've got lots of work to do but I seem to have installed a bs crap monitor on my old behaviours and thinking patterns which will keep pushing me on my accountability :)

Have a nice evening!
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Registered: 09-28-2010
Tue, 11-02-2010 - 8:43pm
Day 26 here you come (-:

Ya - it takes so much to demonstrate that we have changed, and that we are working our butts off to right the wrongs. I am so proud of you for holding your ground and remaining accountable to yourself. YOU know that you're making changes, over time others will come to see the amazing transformation you are making. It just takes time.

My best,

TU.
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Registered: 07-17-2004
Tue, 11-02-2010 - 10:04pm
Thank you transcended :)

It is a very good point you make that time will show that change is happening. I didnt think of that, Iam excited about changing in better ways but I have been a certain way for so long that it will take time for others to see those changes and that I am following through with those changes.

Have a nice evening :)