Counseling has brought out such hate...
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Counseling has brought out such hate...
| Tue, 06-15-2010 - 11:01am |
It took three months of convincing, but I finally talked dh into counseling.
| Tue, 06-15-2010 - 11:01am |
It took three months of convincing, but I finally talked dh into counseling.
Glad to read you and DH are seeking professional help to navigate through the aftermath of D-day.
Whether you think you can or you think you can't you are probably right. A parrot can repeat what it has learned but the mark of true intelligence is applying what is learned.
Ajayceegirl,
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~Iddy~
It is very much disappointment and disgust in myself!
It is very much disappointment and disgust in myself!
Ajay,
You are making progress. There is a different tone to your posts. There were far fewer references to xap and a lot more to yourself and your feelings. That is wonderful!!
Your husband is dealing with the betrayal the only way he knows how right now. He is looking for his own validation among is co-workers that he was not the "bad guy" in this situation. He needs assurance. His own ego took a tremendous blow. I am so glad he has agreed to MC. I believe it is going to help the two of you in many, many