Counseling has brought out such hate...

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Registered: 01-23-2010
Counseling has brought out such hate...
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Tue, 06-15-2010 - 11:01am

It took three months of convincing, but I finally talked dh into counseling.

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Registered: 08-18-2008
Tue, 06-15-2010 - 11:42am

Glad to read you and DH are seeking professional help to navigate through the aftermath of D-day.

Whether you think you can or you think you can't you are probably right. A parrot can repeat what it has learned but the mark of true intelligence is applying what is learned.

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Registered: 12-07-2009
Tue, 06-15-2010 - 12:02pm

Ajayceegirl,


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Registered: 01-23-2010
Tue, 06-15-2010 - 12:21pm

It is very much disappointment and disgust in myself!

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Registered: 01-23-2010
Tue, 06-15-2010 - 1:17pm

It is very much disappointment and disgust in myself!

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Registered: 04-01-2010
Tue, 06-15-2010 - 1:36pm

Ajay,


You are making progress. There is a different tone to your posts. There were far fewer references to xap and a lot more to yourself and your feelings. That is wonderful!!


Your husband is dealing with the betrayal the only way he knows how right now. He is looking for his own validation among is co-workers that he was not the "bad guy" in this situation. He needs assurance. His own ego took a tremendous blow. I am so glad he has agreed to MC. I believe it is going to help the two of you in many, many

Oct. 12, 2010 -- began my personal search and rescue mission.