Cowboyguarantee

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Registered: 11-18-2003
Cowboyguarantee
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Tue, 02-24-2004 - 11:13pm
Send me a valid email addy to respond to. Thanks!

dharma

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Registered: 11-19-2003
Wed, 02-25-2004 - 2:23pm
Thanks dharma for the time you have taken to help me. I will check out that other board sometime soon. I think most of the problems in my M stem from not feeling like I have my own life at all. You have helped me see that maybe I need to work on those problems instead of the problems with OM so that I don't fall into this pattern again. Today I have been thinking about OM and how rude he has been to me, even not answering the last e-mail about something as light as being at the same event with my H. It is time for me to let it go completely. He has a new job and I do not see him anymore. I always felt like he more or less used me to not be so bored at his job. When he was fired, he probably didn't really want anything to do with me anymore. I wish I would have let it go then. When he was at my house the night we had ic, I asked him why now all of a sudden. He answered, because this was spontaneous and I don't see you anymore. It kind of just went over my head at the time, but maybe that meant he wouldn't HAVE to see me anymore. Some good things have come out of it and I try to think of that and use it as a learning experience. I will be here reading as often as I can and post too. Thanks again for all of your help. You are so sweet, C