D day alert?
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| Thu, 12-24-2009 - 2:19pm |
I dropped my laptop last night right in the middle of reading the EAS board. I was unable to restart it and I had not cleared my history before it went dead. I brought the laptop to work today to see if our IT guy could fix it, but he called in sick. Now, I have to take my laptop home and my very handy H will try to fix it over the holidays. I have a houseful of relatives and they have all been using my laptop, so he's keen to fix it. I'm sorry to have to continue the deception, but I think I'll lie and (oops) _accidently_ leave my laptop at the office. I don't see any other option unless I want my A to be discovered when H sees EAS when he restarts the computer. Ugh. I want to throw up. I wish I could put all this mess behind me.
Anyway, I have an issue besides that: my xAP and I promised to warn the other if Dday seemed imminent, and also that we'd take the A to our graves. I will put my H and my M above that promise, in that if I feel the need to disclose the A, I will. but.... the promise to warn xAP re: Dday still seems like the decent thing to do. If the Golden Rule applies, then yes. I mean, I would want that warning. What do you think? What should I do?
H is picking me up from work in a few hours and if he sees that I don't have the laptop with me, he will remind me to go get it -- and then, there goes my plan.
I need to know what to do; I feel too sick to function.
Thanks,
Dee

When you do a total restart, does the window you had open previously come up again? I know that with mine, I only see the desktop. It will most likely though still have the history if he were to look. Will he recognize your screen name?
I sure hope that this doesn't cause any problems for you since you seem so committed to making your marriage work. I wish you all the best.
ND
Deeulta,
I know it's deceptive, but DON'T bring that laptop home.