Daf

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Registered: 06-22-2004
Daf
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Wed, 10-06-2004 - 7:38am
Daf,

Just wanted to see how your IC last night went. Mine was ok I think I found a really great therapist this time. It felt really good to open up to someone about all of the things that have been going on in my life lately. It made me feel a lot better to

hear someone agree that I did not go "looking" for Xmm like H said I did.

My H didn't ask anything as far as what was said even though I could tell he wanted

to. Well hope yours went well also.

Lost

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Registered: 05-30-2003
In reply to: lostnhim
Wed, 10-06-2004 - 9:03am
Hi Lost,

IC went well. I have to agree with you it does feel good to open up to someone about everything that has been going on. My A didn't come up last night, it was more background, but I do really like this T. Actually she suggested that I start coming every week so we can work out these issues (there is a lot more going on then I even wanted to admit). Since H and I are going on vacation I won't see her again until the 20th but we did set up 5 more appts.

I don't think either of us went looking for an A but if you aren't or haven't been in one you just can't understand that. Also your H is hurt as is mine and it is all part of lashing out. When I got home H asked how it went and I told him fine. I had a very bad headache and felt sick and told him that so he never pushed the rest of the night, but like you I could tell he wanted to.

You know Lost we can do this and we will get thru all of it, it will just take us time. Email me if you want to talk further. Have a good day.

DAF