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Registered: 06-22-2007
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Thu, 02-03-2011 - 10:47pm

I've come here for support. I need to go NC and I know it won't be easy. I am hoping I can lean on you all when I am feeling weak. My story may or may not be different than most, but the end result is the same. In brief..

I was with my MM for just over 3 years. Eight months into our relationship he separated from his wife. The "divorce" has been going on for over two years. In January, he told me he had signed the final paperwork. This morning he told me that they've decided to table the divorce until after their son's bar mitzvah, a month from now. I've lost count of how many times he's done similar things. I decided this morning that I was finished living in limbo.

I told him not to contact me unless he 1) has a final divorce decree in his hand or 2) has decided to reconcile with his wife. Frankly, I hope he hurries up and goes back to her so I can finally have some closure. I wish I could say that I was sad, but honestly, I am just very, very angry. The anger seems to come over me in waves and it is overwhelming. I need help managing that.

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Registered: 01-31-2011
In reply to: idkwiwt
Fri, 02-04-2011 - 6:17pm

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Registered: 08-30-2010
In reply to: idkwiwt
Fri, 02-04-2011 - 11:31pm
Vanessa...thanks for posting that....I can see how it helped you and I'm sure it will help others (newbies, vets and everyone in between). Nvr...I would add to the other support only by saying (since the others have said it better than I could); keep posting and let us know how you are doing.

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