Day 10 NC

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Registered: 07-09-2007
Day 10 NC
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Thu, 08-20-2009 - 11:34pm

I am a MM who was in an affair for 5 years.

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-09-2007
In reply to: kicia2008
Thu, 08-20-2009 - 11:41pm
oops typo - I'm a MW!
iVillage Member
Registered: 07-24-2005
In reply to: kicia2008
Fri, 08-21-2009 - 12:08am

last week I texted him "forget about getting together I think you suck."


iVillage Member
Registered: 07-09-2007
In reply to: kicia2008
Fri, 08-21-2009 - 7:25am

Yes, it was a pretty simple message - LOL.

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-28-2009
In reply to: kicia2008
Fri, 08-21-2009 - 9:37am

Kicai~


Welcome to EAS!

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-09-2007
In reply to: kicia2008
Fri, 08-21-2009 - 9:53am

Thanks Lynn - the saddest thing was too and what got me really disgusted was that he started a relationship with a woman overseas who has a child.

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Registered: 07-28-2009
In reply to: kicia2008
Fri, 08-21-2009 - 10:07am

Kicia...


Through out the 18 month A I always found signs of "other women" at his home.


The final straw for me was when I found condom wrappers and put 2 and 2 together that he was with one of his other gal pals within hours of being with me.


BUT I am the married one here and as much as I wanted to put all the blame on him im the one that I now blame.

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Registered: 07-09-2007
In reply to: kicia2008
Fri, 08-21-2009 - 10:14am

Yes I am to blame too and I finally came to terms and ended it - I'm proud of myself for that at least.


Mine went on a ski trip with a guy friend and gal friends (so he claimed) and then saw me the following day several months back.

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Registered: 02-05-2009
In reply to: kicia2008
Fri, 08-21-2009 - 10:25am

Hi Kicia and welcome to EAS, big hug for you and congratulations for getting off the horrible mad roller-coaster of an A. We're here to support you all the way!

"forget about getting together I think you suck."

Gurl, u are my HERO!!! That is awesome - I laughed so loud my dog thinks I'm nuts (it's just us two this lazy morning). I love it. I think you'll be a great asset to EAS :-)

big hugs,

trixie xo



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iVillage Member
Registered: 07-09-2007
In reply to: kicia2008
Fri, 08-21-2009 - 10:30am

He does suck and I am so mad at myself for having wasted 5 years of time, energy, money, concern and what I thought was love.

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-16-2008
In reply to: kicia2008
Sun, 08-23-2009 - 10:13pm

congrats on ending!!! i love the way you went NO CONTACT- lol. tee hee- now, i'm being a bad little cl!


anyways- warm welcome to the board- hope you read the general threads, here and/or the healing library below


hugs


ls

CL-Lovely Starr


"No memory of having starred; atones for later disregard; or keeps the end from being hard."

CL-Lovely Starr

"No memory of having starred; atones for later disregard; or keeps the end from being h