Day 14 NC and the Distractions

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Registered: 09-16-2009
Day 14 NC and the Distractions
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Wed, 10-21-2009 - 5:51pm

You know I have been cool, calm and collected for 14 empowering days and yet he continues to send me msgs which I haven't responded to just delete.

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Registered: 08-18-2008
Wed, 10-21-2009 - 6:19pm

Hi HP,


Congrats. on day 14!!!


Whether you think you can or you think you can't you are probably right. A parrot can repeat what it has learned but the mark of true intelligence is applying what is learned.

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-04-2009
Wed, 10-21-2009 - 6:50pm

KUDOS TO YOU!

NC since October 2, 2009.

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Registered: 02-28-2009
Wed, 10-21-2009 - 11:25pm

You have taught him in the past that if he is persistent, you will eventually cave. He’s learned that today you say no but tomorrow you say yes. He doesn’t know how determined you are to stick to your NO.


This is right on for my situation. I have taught him that if he "gives me my space and lets me come to my senses" as he always put it that I will eventually continue on with the A. Not this time around. I am determined. Just over three weeks NC and doing good....not great but good....it is a start.


 

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Registered: 07-28-2009
Thu, 10-22-2009 - 11:44am

Hey There HP!!!!


Sorry to hear he is still fishing...