Day 2 done successfully... now day 3
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Day 2 done successfully... now day 3
| Wed, 12-03-2003 - 10:33am |
Hi again everyone... Your words of support are helping me so much! I made it all the way through day 2. I had 4 hangup calls made to my home (none on the cell), one messenger message (which was very strange) and an email sent to work today from an organization he belongs to (I was on the bulk mailing for that). In that, he mentions being away for a few weeks and I am sure he is waiting for some kind of response from me. It is not going to happen. I will not respond to the messenger message or the email. As for the hangups, can't stop those, but hopefully they will decrease over time. Oh, and just now, a hangup at work... geez....
As the childish behavior on his part continues, it is doing nothing but reinforcing the fact that I have done the right thing.
Don't get me wrong, this hurts and hurts bad, but I am focused here at work and will be busy again tonight, so I won't have much time to dwell on that.
One day, one hour, one minute at a time.....
You guys are the best and thank you!

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Anyway, you are doing GREAT! Grab day three by the gonads, you are doing GREAT! Tomorrow is four weeks for me, and I remember how agonizing the first week was....it DOES get easier, you don't believe it now but it does.
Jazzdiva
I am not going to let his behavior dictate what I am doing now. I will not be frightened into contact with him. He will NOT win this......
Congratulations on the 4 weeks! I look forward to being able to say that...
It is sad that we are talking this way about men that we loved, don't you think? What does that say about these men?
Jazzdiva
Yes, I did/do love the man and why? Heaven only knows. Maybe I need to build up some anger toward him and replace the love with anger?
This is not a good day.....
Hugs
Cali~
Tell me though, why do I love the man? I am beginning to wonder if he is unstable and it is a little scary....
Although I don't post often, I read the board every day and keep it up at work, so I can refer to it all throughout the day. This is a wonderful place of acceptance and support....
I want him to go away now. Just to go.
i just get crazed over stuff like this because my sister had a crazy ex boyfriend who turned out to be some kind of lunatic... just be careful, okay?
Jazzdiva
I just keep telling myself, don't call back, don't call back.....
and I won't.
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