Day 3--and the "email"

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Day 3--and the "email"
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Tue, 10-06-2009 - 9:46pm
So. I went two steps back this weekend when I broke NC after a week of feeling pretty strong. (7 year A, we were both M when it began--I got the D 2 years ago, he's still M.). I began again and am on Day 3.

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Registered: 02-05-2009
Tue, 10-06-2009 - 10:17pm

Hi sweetie,

I totally agree his email is stupid and lame. It's a flimsy, lazy excuse to keep a 'pulse' going in your relationship and hopefully to eventually draw you back in to the A if he sees you respond. And girlie, YOU are smart enough not to fall for this fake drivel!! I love the way these xMM's are so vague, I swear they do it on purpose. I used to get stupid stuff like that and it made me want to tear my hair out, then b!tchslap him lol

Keep your power! Do not respond to this - it's total cr@p and not worth a minute of your precious time. I hope your feeling of power are making you feel GOOD tonite - try to hold on to that powerful, in control feeling in the next weeks as you work this loser out of your life. We're here for you!

big hugs,

trixie xo



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Registered: 10-05-2009
Tue, 10-06-2009 - 10:29pm

YOU are amazing.

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Registered: 05-11-2003
Tue, 10-06-2009 - 10:53pm

Thanks. I've

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Registered: 05-11-2003
Tue, 10-06-2009 - 11:20pm

Thanks, Trixie.


I appreciate your kind words. You are an inspiration!


Today, I feel confident, but I need to keep that confidence up.


I really valued this relationship (the A)

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Registered: 02-28-2009
Wed, 10-07-2009 - 2:54am
Good for you responding. Stay strong.

 

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Registered: 08-27-2008
Wed, 10-07-2009 - 8:59am

Lofluv,


I agree

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Registered: 07-28-2009
Wed, 10-07-2009 - 9:35am

Just a thought...


NC= no new hurts, no trying to figure out cryptic emails, no holding out hope, no disappointment when you dont hear from him, no toxic fog, no sleepless nights, no more tears, no feeling like a piece of meat or better yet just a piece of a$$, no feeling like your unworthy of being loved and treasured by a real man, no second guessing yourself, no looking in the mirror an wondering who you have become.


I could go on and on but I think you understand what im trying to say...


L


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Registered: 07-24-2005
Wed, 10-07-2009 - 9:43am

Good morning, lofluv :)


Good for you for coming here and working it out to strengthen your resolve.


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Registered: 07-24-2005
Wed, 10-07-2009 - 9:48am

I want to ditto Lynn's meaning.


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Registered: 07-24-2005
Wed, 10-07-2009 - 11:57am
what's going on with my pic!

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