Welcome to Endings which really should be called New Beginnings or at least New Chapters because if you stick to NC that is what it will be in your life.
Congrats. on blocking that is a huge step and one that will be helpful in your healing.
Whether you think you can or you think you can't you are probably right. A parrot can repeat what it has learned but the mark of true intelligence is applying what is learned.
Welcome LB to our board (-: and to the beginning of the End of your affair. While it can be a scary place, you''re not alone.
E1 that is a most amazing suggestion. I wish I would have done that exercise early in my ending process - heck, when I get a moment, I am going to do it. It can't hurt to be ready for any fishing attempt that may come in the future.
((hugs))
TU.
LC/NC since April 14, 2010
"I can be changed by what happens to me. But I refuse to be reduced by it." — Maya Angelou
Whether you think you can or you think you can't you are probably right. A parrot can repeat what it has learned but the mark of true intelligence is applying what is learned.
Hi Lellibee,
Welcome to Endings which really should be called New Beginnings or at least New Chapters because if you stick to NC that is what it will be in your life.
Congrats. on blocking that is a huge step and one that will be helpful in your healing.
Whether you think you can or you think you can't you are probably right. A parrot can repeat what it has learned but the mark of true intelligence is applying what is learned.
Welcome LB to our board (-: and to the beginning of the End of your affair. While it can be a scary place, you''re not alone.
E1 that is a most amazing suggestion. I wish I would have done that exercise early in my ending process - heck, when I get a moment, I am going to do it. It can't hurt to be ready for any fishing attempt that may come in the future.
((hugs))
TU.
LC/NC since April 14, 2010
"I can be changed by what happens to me. But I refuse to be reduced by it."
— Maya Angelou
"I can be changed by what happens to me. But I refuse to be reduced by it."
— Maya Angelou
I too wish I would have had some of these ideas when I ended my A.
Whether you think you can or you think you can't you are probably right. A parrot can repeat what it has learned but the mark of true intelligence is applying what is learned.