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DDay Has Arrived
| Wed, 11-11-2009 - 4:41pm |
Well as they say the "prodigal son has returned" or make that daughter in my case.
| Wed, 11-11-2009 - 4:41pm |
Well as they say the "prodigal son has returned" or make that daughter in my case.
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There you go I already realized a step in this and edited my post!
Hey LD, nice to see you!
I suggest the book "Not Just Friends" by Dr. Shirley Glass here frequently.
Hi Energy,
Thank you so much for your post, I posted this afraid I wasnt welcome here anymore because of my many stops and starts with him, and when no one replied I was feeling crushed.
Don't ever feel like you cannot come here when you are NC or trying to go NC. That is what this board is for. And we will or have fallen and gotten back up. And the important part is getting back up, dusting ourselves off and going no contact. The only person we are hurting when we reengage in the A is ourselves. No one here is judging you, we just care about you. I'm glad that you are here and back and recommitted to NC. He is weak and a coward for staying with her for those reasons and treating you with disrespect. Your dream guy I'm sure is not a weak, selfish or cowardly man. You sound like a great, loving lady and deserve someone as good as you. A man like him does not deserve to even know someone like you let alone have your heart. So take back your control and give yourself time to get through this without him in the way. I was so dependent on my Exap, he had isolated me so much. He was the person that I went to for everything. He was like God to me. And when he let me go I realized he was never there for me it was all about him making himself feel good. that was painful to accept but in another way easier to let go when I realized the R wasn't as great as I thought it was. So I had to depend on myself, God, this board, my T and talking to my mom also really helped.
"I have to decide how I will handle it when he calls in a day or two, Im trying to be strong and I know
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Same problem With Clarity, my response just disappeared too!
Withclarity,
Thanks for the hug and welcome back.
Energy,
As I posted to clarity, he hasnt ended us at least not yet but Im prepared that it may happen at least while he deals with her and his phoney guilt.
Definately take your power back from this man, a cheater, drinker, liar...........charming.
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