Definition of TweenerVille
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Definition of TweenerVille
| Sun, 01-16-2011 - 10:03am |
It would appear there are different definitions and views of arriving at TweenerVille. So, Iddy, please tell us exactly what the criteria are for achieving those wings and reaching

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I'll definitely take Iddy's definition as "the one" but wanted to add my two cents.
For me, achieving tweenerville and NC were a big issue.
My understanding was any contact made BY YOU to xAP was in fact breaking contact.
The 3 month span for getting to TweenerVille begins with that first day of NC/LC. Cyber stalking falls into a gray area because you are not really making contact...but you are hurting yourself by doing it. I usually let this slide if someone admits to it. In your case, sending that txt was actually breaking contact but because
That is a good question.
Good Stuff KHA!!!!
I was nodding in agreement.
I love to read when people GET IT. It allows me to see how much I "GET IT" too.
Iddy,
having only been a TWEENER FOR ONE DAY...and enjoying the symbolism of THE WINGS :
FREE
FREE FLYING
FREE BALLIN
FREE FALLIN
FREE!!!!!!!
I SAY YAY!
To me, I can say that what TWEENERVILLE represents to me - is illustrative in my post a few days ago - about "RECAPPING the last 3 months"....here's how:
Usually in my past - when I've went through something REALLY TOUGH - everyday....seems like a NEW SURPRISE...until ...finally...having cycled through it so many times -and NO NEW SURPRISES...I begin to want to "REFLECT" ...to speak to the things ive learned during that period. It just so happens that the time I was able to do that "RECAP"...was 3 months out of the Affair. So, I think a well informed person (ClearGuidance)
(((IDDY))))
Handing out those majestic Tweenerville medals is one of the most positive and encouraging aspect of this Board.
Thank you Newlife and thank you for being such an inspiration to so many ladies here (myself included) who are struggling to extricate themselves from the phantom of a fantasy roller coaster ride to self-distruction.
Iddy I think the wings are an awesome thing for us to reach and achieve.
Tweenerville (3 months NC), Supertweener, (6 months NC), someone mentioned Super Duper Tweener 9 months of NC) think it was Bodhi....either way keep em all. And last but not least (VET STATUS). These were landmarks for me. They were what kept me going.
Yo Soy EL Capitan de Mi Vida
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