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Delete Forever? Yep. I did it.
| Sun, 11-14-2010 - 9:04am |
I was going through some mighty struggles last week.
| Sun, 11-14-2010 - 9:04am |
I was going through some mighty struggles last week.
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Bravo, Alwayst.
I know I was one of those who said you'll delete them when you are ready, but geeze girl, had I known all you needed was a day or two...I would have been more assertive.:smileytongue: I held onto to my "BOX" of stuff for 3 years (although I never looked at them) as a precautionary measure in case a D-Day were to happen down the road. If I had gotten fired, I wanted some ammunition to show it was not one-sided by a long shot. I would have nailed him before going down with the ship... is all I am saying. I did eventually have a nice bonfire in the backyard where I torched everything. :smileywink:
But, back to you. Woo-hoo. You just sawed off that last shackle holding you down and I am very proud of you. It also sounds like you had a dandy time out with your buds, and have mentally reconfigured the significance of your hangout. Major kudos for taking back your power even MORE than you already have.... And about finding a new T? Girl, you are on a roll.
I am hoping this week will be one where you are finally feeling the freedom that comes with all of this letting go. It can be very empowering,
(((Hugs)))
((((Iddy))))
Why waste time, ya know?? When you're ready, you're ready. Every day -- even the crappy ones -- we are regaining a little bit of our power.
Still a little nervous about seeing the new T (on Friday), but why resist the things that I know are going to help me get better? I am/was just so sick and tired of being a mess. Time to take more action toward my goal. :smileyhappy:
Now if I could just drag my lazy azz out of bed on this cold morning and get to work on some chores, that would be a huge accomplishment!! LOL. Have a great day.
Love,
~alwayst2
always, I feel so good for you.
en you were out with your friends. hugs
I KNEW you'd do it soon.
Always...so so so sooooooooooooooooo happy to read this post!
To alwaysst2,
Good for you.
HAHHAHAHHAHA we already KNEW who might have used the word Idiot! hahahahah
Look a well placed - Stupid or Idiot never hurt anybody! Especially when it's true!
We KNOW you say it with LOVE!
:)
ALWAYS!!!
You're so LOVELY!!!!
YAY! ROCKING THE DELETE PERMANENTLY BUTTON!!!
And then going out and engaging in LIFE - there's no better feeling than that one, right??!?!? I LOVE THAT! You get out, you realize you can communicate, share, laugh, make people laugh, you feel your attractiveness, freedom, Light spirit - it's so CATHARTIC! That's probably why all the advice is "get out. DO things"
Its a formibdable effort when its just easier to stay at home being this girl:
hahhahahah this is my new POSTER GIRL for how I feel inside when I feel Im being PATHETIC! so High five you!!!! for NOT BEING THIS GIRL!!!!!!
I can TELL that you're walking 3 ft higher than the ground, when you used the word "EXPONENTIALLY" in terms of your growth and how you feel NOW! yay!!!!
KEEP IT UP- and you're SO correct about posting the down times and struggles without feeling like a WHINER. Im guilty of that too. I want to ACE this ending "perfectly"...and feeling down or going backwards is in opposition of that - so here's to the rest of us - that even you GRACEFUL enders - (audrey hepburn) have your moments and SO CAN WE! :)
xo,
M
Thank you for sharing your deleting accomplishment. Your post gave me the courage to throw out some roses that xap had given me which I had dried out! I threw them and the vase out!
I am so happy that my post helped you, Jen. I posted something to you in Alice's thread. I am very happy that you were at a place in your soul where you were ready to throw out the flowers and vase. I do believe we have to be "ready" to do it, but we can't drag our feet, either....it makes it too easy to second guess ourselves. Action, action, action. Gotta keep moving forward. Big hugs to you.
Michelle, OMG I LOVE the poster girl!!! I am going to cut and paste that into my strength file. LOVE IT!!!
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