Do I break NO CONTACT to tell him.......
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Do I break NO CONTACT to tell him.......
| Tue, 09-14-2004 - 1:25am |
It's been almost 2 months since the last day I saw, spoke and emailed MM! It's been almost that long since I stopped checking "our" email account. Today I was feeling nostalgic (or bored for a minute) so I signed onto our little secret email account.
There were several emails from him and the last one said "I guess you're not talking to me anymore".
Should I respond and tell him I no longer want to be a part of his twisted life......or do I let it be in hopes that he'll eventually figure it out?
When I allow myself to think about our relationship, I'm still hurt and upset about some of the things he said or didn't say (and should have) the last time we saw each other but for the most part, I'm still numb about what our relationship of 5 years did to me!
Maybe I'm just PMSing tonight and this too shall pass.

NO do nothing at all to indicate that you even looked at that account, never look again, if you do anything to show you were there it will encourage him to come after you again.
It is not worth it, just say NO.
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In understand your temptation but if you e-mail him, you will throw yourself back 2 months.
I think there is something about the 2-month mark. For me, that was my weakest time. But if you ride this out without caving in & breaking NC, you'll come out of it in a far better place and you'll get over it a LOT faster!
I agree with everyone else - don't email him!
Congrats on the 2 months!!! It would only start the cycle all over again if you bother to answer him. How long have you waited for him to tell you what you want to hear? I found myself in this position and just realized that he's never going to.
Stay strong, and don't em him back. I think he'll get the hint.
I have to agree with all the others. Do not respond!