Do they come back?

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Registered: 10-28-2004
Do they come back?
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Wed, 03-30-2005 - 7:46pm

Okay, I have posted that my MM is becoming more and more distant. He says that he wants to divorce his W on his own, without any outside influence. He has to do this by himself. They have 2 kids and great amount of debt as I understand from what he has told me. He tells me that he doesn't love her, and didn't even before he met me. It has been 6 months since we started this A.

Well, EVERY time we have talked this past week I am a basket case!!! I am a STRONG woman on my own, confident and self-sufficient. But when he calls, I cry and fall apart. I KNOW that this is pushing him away. I don't plan on doing this but I miss him SO much!

So, of course, he has stopped calling.

From your experience, and I know that I am going to get in trouble for this, but do they come back? At this point, I am even depserate enough for a booty call! (yeah, go ahead and yell at me...I deserve it!)

I am keeping my options open but I don't want to do ANYTHING but sleep and the basic necessities, like work and laundry and feeding my children. I am unable to smile, to talk, to read, to watch a movie. I've been through a divorce and I never even felt this bad.

I just want to know what to expect here....will he be back?

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-28-2003
Wed, 03-30-2005 - 8:24pm
Yes the minute he realizes your no longer desperate to have him around he will be back to regain his foothold in your life, but once he has done that he will go back to doing what he was doing.