do they have radar or something????

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-05-2010
do they have radar or something????
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Fri, 06-18-2010 - 1:52pm

Hey ladies.. been off for a while as it is difficult to get on as often as I would like. I am hoping everyone is staying on their true path :)

So really now??? Do they have a little radar built in or something??? I am moving on and even started dating a little. That has been tough but I want to get out there and start living a little. Mind you I am taking the dating scene nice and slow as I still have healing within to deal with. Back to my question. So I am coping well.. I meet a decent guy. Nothing much happening there but I like him thus far. I am starting to smile even in private moments I KNOW WOWOW!!! I get a message from XMM; yes a message. Casual. Then Another a little more flirty. I didnt respond so he gave up I suppose. But let me tell you getting the message set me back. I was sad all over again. I was tempted all over again. I wanted him again :( I know I am not over it but I was getting used to the idea and coping. I want indifference. Where can i get some?

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-05-2010
Fri, 06-18-2010 - 1:56pm
Oh and I guess his wife finding out didnt change a thing for him! He is still trying!
iVillage Member
Registered: 01-23-2010
Fri, 06-18-2010 - 2:14pm
His W finding out didn't mean a thing because he knows that you will help him keep his dirty little secrets from her. Don't entagle yourself into their nasty little web. Continue to date single available guys and block MM's number. You really don't have to share a man, trust me.
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-07-2009
Fri, 06-18-2010 - 2:32pm

Live,


Block him from

   ~Iddy~ 


iVillage Member
Registered: 05-05-2010
Fri, 06-18-2010 - 3:00pm

I just got off wit the provider and blocked is number. This is a start. I now have him blocked from everyting. IM and Facebook! I hated that feeling that I felt when I got his message. So I am full proof protected. I just hope not to run into him. I actually avoid places that I know he will be at. No loss to me really I could care less to go anyway. If I see him I need some serious armour. Oh his damn smile! I melt everytime!

OMG when you said open new wounds my first thought was No WAY I just cant handle it all over again. I find the more I re-open that wound it get harder everytime. Good news is I dont want C with him. I really dont. Although I am sad, and nostalgic at times but the memory of the pain while in A is still present. Its a good thing. Keeps me focused. As for the new guy he seems really nice and he is SINGLE :) I am def not rushing into this.