do you agree?

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-19-2009
do you agree?
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Fri, 12-25-2009 - 9:57pm

I heard this today - "if it hurts so bad, it's because you are holding on too tight"..


Maybe if we try to let go and accept what is/has been/will never be, maybe then some of that weight will lift off our shoulders..maybe..why is it so hard to do that..why is it easier to stay with the misery you know rather than move on to the unknown?


hope everyone is getting through today, tomorrow is another day.

Sunshine


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Sunshine

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iVillage Member
Registered: 07-24-2005
Sat, 12-26-2009 - 12:32am

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iVillage Member
Registered: 12-07-2009
Sat, 12-26-2009 - 10:12am

>why is it easier to stay with the misery you know rather than move on to the unknown?<


Good question...one to be posed to a therapist who can dig deeper than we can here to see if you (you in general ;) are addicted to misery.

   ~Iddy~ 


iVillage Member
Registered: 06-19-2009
Sun, 12-27-2009 - 9:45am

Thanks Clarity for responding..i thought some

Sunshine

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iVillage Member
Registered: 08-06-2007
Sun, 12-27-2009 - 11:20am

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iVillage Member
Registered: 07-24-2005
Sun, 12-27-2009 - 11:29am

I guess there were a couple of ways one could interpret the quote...well actually a few (with that guy thing


iVillage Member
Registered: 11-11-2008
Sun, 12-27-2009 - 11:36am

Sunshine..


I agree that we need to accept "It is what it is." and realize we need to move on.