Do you think he will still fish?
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Do you think he will still fish?
| Tue, 12-08-2009 - 11:41am |
Relatively new to the board, so I am a tweener, I am a soon to be single mother of two, in D process, have lived alone for 2.5 years. D has nothing to do with A. A lasted about 6 months, but I only new about the marriage for a month a half or so. But I still saw him and started to disengrate into nothing. I ended it last friday...but he emailed me yesterday (ignored it) and his wife called me yesterday.
Just after I found out he was married, I found out I was no pregnant, and I called her and told her everything. I am No longer pregnant and as of that day, started no contact. I am pretty sure that based on the conversation he and his wife had, he wont come fishing, I called her when I found out he was married and that he had hidden a new born baby and the fact that he was married. He was super angry. He was mad. He stayed away for a week or so.
Yesterday was emotionally exhausting. Of course he made me look like a lying crazy women who is obsessed with him. But me telling her that we had still been seeing one another all this time will infuriate him. I am sure once again, he made me out to be crazy and has patched it all up for them. She told him I called her, so he is extra furious with me. I think its a good thing. Maybe he will stay away. That is my hope
So if you go based on his very nasty emails, I should have no contact from him for a while. which is the goal. Do you all think he will come fishing? AS exhuasting as yesterday, I am hoping it will all work out for my benefit. let me know your thoughts. I know I have a long road ahead of me. I am thankful for you all and plan on getting thru this. Maybe he is angry enough to stay away?
Please let me know your thoughts, thanks
Just after I found out he was married, I found out I was no pregnant, and I called her and told her everything. I am No longer pregnant and as of that day, started no contact. I am pretty sure that based on the conversation he and his wife had, he wont come fishing, I called her when I found out he was married and that he had hidden a new born baby and the fact that he was married. He was super angry. He was mad. He stayed away for a week or so.
Yesterday was emotionally exhausting. Of course he made me look like a lying crazy women who is obsessed with him. But me telling her that we had still been seeing one another all this time will infuriate him. I am sure once again, he made me out to be crazy and has patched it all up for them. She told him I called her, so he is extra furious with me. I think its a good thing. Maybe he will stay away. That is my hope
So if you go based on his very nasty emails, I should have no contact from him for a while. which is the goal. Do you all think he will come fishing? AS exhuasting as yesterday, I am hoping it will all work out for my benefit. let me know your thoughts. I know I have a long road ahead of me. I am thankful for you all and plan on getting thru this. Maybe he is angry enough to stay away?
Please let me know your thoughts, thanks

Hi Siennajaden,
You want to know if he will come-a-fishin?
Hi Sienna,
As for your question “Will he still fish?” and your other post about how long before he fishes, indicates that you are still caught up in A thinking. “A” thinking is what xAP will or won’t do why he does/does not do this or that.
The answer to your question is does it matter if he does or does not? EAS is not the xAP Psychic Hotline. If “you” block all avenues of contact, then you have less to concern yourself with. After his W called you and you posted about it, one poster suggested blocking her number. You are now through with everything. It’s time to put the past in the past and move forward.
If you want to get on the path to healing, it’s time to focus your thoughts on what you are going to do to move past this. It is NOT important what xAP is thinking/feeling/ or will do/won’t do. It is of no importance to you what xAP and W are doing. That is their R and it is their problem.
Whether you think you can or you think you can't you are probably right. A parrot can repeat what it has learned but the mark of true intelligence is applying what is learned.