Do you work w/ OM ?

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Registered: 07-02-2004
Do you work w/ OM ?
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Sat, 02-19-2005 - 9:43pm

Hi - I think some of you may know me I post occasionlly
I broke contact after 6 weeks . I think what triggered
It was the fact that my BdAy was on Valentines Day and I really thought he
would call .....NOPE !!!! So- the following day I texted him
something STUPID and I called his cell
( saw my # ) did NOT answer . Following day another text and than on Thurs. sent him another stupid email ......NOTHING

sO- iTS BACK TO nc day 2 and it aint easy..........

We work for the same company we get a schedule . Sometimes I work w/ him and
sometimes I dont . I am working w/om on Wed. I am not sure what to do ......

do- I talk to him do, i ingore him .....I dunno . All I know is when the day is over I will be on my way home and in tears ....and I will want to call him so badly .....

Who here works w/ the MM/ OM/OW ?????? AND HOW DO YOU DEAL W/ IT ?????????????????????????

BLUE- IN NJ

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Registered: 03-13-2004
Sat, 02-19-2005 - 10:57pm

hi love,

i work with OW, she ended it 2 weeks ago, she sits about 20 feet away from me, our office are on the same floor and on the same galley too

what i do is i literally hide from her but i do see her and we just say hi like any other co-workers, its hard , very hard for me to concentrate at work, im way behind, as far as she is concern and from what i can see, she is doing much better than me , she is carrying on like nothing happened as far as i can see and tell

i stay away from OM

max

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Registered: 12-10-2004
Sun, 02-20-2005 - 10:39pm

Hey there -
so you had a bad day huh? I'm sure it was hard b/c of vday and your bday on the same day. don't be too hard on yourself for breaking contact though. it happens. i'm sure you are very disappointed that he didn't respond though. that should just fuel your fire to not want to contact him again. i'm sure you feel rejected and hurt that he didn't call or tm back. sometimes it is nice to know that they are thinking of you.

if I were you, I wouldn't talk to him at work. I'm sure you want to know why he didn't respond, maybe there is a good reason, maybe he didn't get your TM, or maybe he is just trying really hard to keep NC. Don't set yourself up for more disappointment. Just try and ignore him the best that you can at work.

I also work with my xMM and it is really hard. He sits right down the aisle from me. I see him everyday. I hear his voice. I see him down the aisle. We have broken NC many times because it is just so hard to not talk when you see them standing right there. I just do the best that I can. I try to ignore him and not talk to him much. It does get easier the more time goes by. I promise. But then there are bad days where you revert back to bad habits and you just can't resist the urge to contact each other. Working together definately makes it harder. I know!