Does any 1 think ur MM dated more than U
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Does any 1 think ur MM dated more than U
| Wed, 01-12-2005 - 2:18pm |
Just curious as to whether anyone thinks that they're MM was seeing other woman either while you were together with him or after you broke off the affair? Sometimes I see messages about MM's that sound SO much like mine that I wonder if it isn't more than just the personality traits of cheating men---perhaps we were involved with the same person?
Just a thought. Not to mention that I think a lot our MM's continually cheat and we aren't the first and we certainly won't be the last!
Hurting No More!!!

HNM,
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YES! YES! YES! I found emails from and to other women. We work together. One day last month, he called to have me check his email (waiting for something important) and gave me his password. Well, I was nosey and seen more than I was ready to see for sure. I am still in the A; although, we had NC for awhile. I fell in love and am working myself through to the end. Slowly but surely.
SS
Well - before me...........xMM did originally buy the "other cell phone" to talk to this Russian girl (Married with 3 kids!!)
I spoke with her once when she called the his "other cell" because she wanted to talk to me - so he handed the phone to me.
She was nice - said that they were friends and that she understood from what he said that he cared for me and wanted to be with me - she said that she hoped that he would be able to free himself from his W because she was a horrible person (true). She said he was so unhappy and that he seemed happy with me and that she was just calling him to see how he was.......that they had not spoken for a long time.
I did not feel threatened at all.
He said they kissed once in her minivan back in Feb......but that he knew he did not want an A with her and that she was really nice and listened to his problems. And, he wanted no part of dealing with someones kids (we both have no children).
But - yes - he had gone outside his marriage non the less - comfort and support, someone who listened and someone to lookforward to talking too.
I am sure that even though he lived with me and still states that he cares for me - I wont be the last.
I know he did and likely has since I ended it.
There are some I know about, called him out on, but likely far more than I could ever stand to stomach if I knew.
He told me he did it before me and I was somehow convinced I had the power to stop it all. We've heard it, and said it all before...I thought I was special...blah, blah.
He cheated on the woman he married!!!! Why would he not cheat on us?
Power and strength to us all.
yup...mine did...about the time his phone calls to me slowed down, he was starting something with someone else that he "met" a month after me. He should have told me instead of hedging his bets. I wouldve seen that he wasn't serious about me. This wouldnt have hurt as much, especially since i resisted him for so long...so long...that is what i dont understand. He probably didnt know me well enough to know how i'd react. He is wrong...shouldve told me that he met someone when he now says he did meet her. I wouldn't be vomiting alot now.
Edited 1/12/2005 4:49 pm ET ET by lizzie1965
Edited 1/12/2005 4:50 pm ET ET by lizzie1965