Does this happen to other women too?

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Registered: 02-04-2004
Does this happen to other women too?
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Fri, 06-04-2004 - 9:11am
I haven't been to this board in awhile. But I do say a prayer for all those who are here. And I know you all can help me with this or at least give some insight. Quick background. I was with a man who was engaged & almost called off his wedding. Well, he got married on May 15. About a week later, I get a phone call saying he thinks he made the biggest mistake of his life. All his friends and family know he's in love with me, but didn't want to call off his wedding because she spent alot of money.

What tends to happen in these situations? I love this guy. Why, I don't know. But when I was with him, I was happy. Anyhow... will they last, or will he end up leaving? what tends to happen? I don't think he'll leave for me, but I don't think his marriage will last. I mean, he was calling me a week later. Wassup with that?

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Registered: 02-04-2004
Mon, 06-07-2004 - 2:00pm
You are right. I have offered to let him alone, but he doesn't seem to want that. He wants me in his life now. He's not sure what he wants to do. I know if it is meant to be, it WILL be. I just have this gut feeling. It's so weird. But from what his friend told me, she's ruining the marriage, without me even being involved. I opened my heart and told him how I feel. It was hard, but I did it. I told him he now has the information, and what he does with it is his decision. I chose not to compete. I am me, that's my angle. He will leave me for me, and I am sacrificing alot for him. And I know that if he does leave, he will be sacrificing alot for me too. I guess there is no way to speed this up, is there?

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