Does the MM hurt too?
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| Tue, 10-12-2004 - 4:51am |
I'm trying to end an A and nearly there!
During the time I have been seeing the MM I have had the rollercoaster of emotions we all know so well.
My question to you, is, do you think the MM hurts at all when they are not seeing you? I am wondering whether they experience any of the pain we do, the yearning, and wanting to be with them. Or if it is a case of out of sight, out of mind.
I have never admitted to MM how sad and in turmoil I feel when I am not with him, nor have I asked if he even thinks about me when we are not together - somehow that would be weak.
Have any of you ladies ever asked these questions, or have any insight into the mind of a MM when they are not with you.
I would be so greateful for your opinions and views.
Love to you all,
Orchid

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Yes I speak to my xH and we are great for our 4 children. We do not fight over them, we help each other each week and have a very flexible schedule. We had dinner with the whole family for our daughter's 15th birthday. so that is the best part of my divorce
When xMM dumped me after I left my xH, I could have gone back but a tiny voice deep inside me said "get out, get out now while you can" so I did. Even though I do love my xH as a dear family member, I have never missed him for one day since I left a year ago. Believe me it makes me feel like a sick person to not miss the man I lived with since I was 17 years old.
But all my pain and sadness was for XMM
JMHO,
Blue-Eyed
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