Doing Better

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Registered: 03-01-2010
Doing Better
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Sat, 05-01-2010 - 11:25am
I saw XAP for a minute at the end of my son's soccer game today.
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Registered: 10-21-2009
Sat, 05-01-2010 - 5:52pm

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That made me smile. I probably wouldn't even be able to come up with a "gift". Isn't it pathetic that we invest so much in these men, and they give back nothing.

XOXO
Gone

**Bloodied but unbowed**
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Registered: 12-31-2009
Sat, 05-01-2010 - 6:34pm

Glad to hear you're doing better, PG! Day by day we heal a little more, but it sure seems to take a long time! Gone's note about our investing so much really gave me food for thought. And what it made me think about is this: My XAP would be the one to say that I was the one who took from him and didn't give anything close in return. That's probably what bothers me most about my A. He doesn't understand that I risked everything for him. He actually believes he gave more to the R than I did. You're so right, Gone. What we do for these guys is pathetic. He's the one who needs to thank me for doing us both a favor by ending it. Live and learn...

Hang tough, PG. Whether it feels like it or not, this is a victory for you!

Love and hugs,

CSN