That made me smile. I probably wouldn't even be able to come up with a "gift". Isn't it pathetic that we invest so much in these men, and they give back nothing.
Glad to hear you're doing better, PG! Day by day we heal a little more, but it sure seems to take a long time! Gone's note about our investing so much really gave me food for thought. And what it made me think about is this: My XAP would be the one to say that I was the one who took from him and didn't give anything close in return. That's probably what bothers me most about my A. He doesn't understand that I risked everything for him. He actually believes he gave more to the R than I did. You're so right, Gone. What we do for these guys is pathetic. He's the one who needs to thank me for doing us both a favor by ending it. Live and learn...
Hang tough, PG. Whether it feels like it or not, this is a victory for you!
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That made me smile. I probably wouldn't even be able to come up with a "gift". Isn't it pathetic that we invest so much in these men, and they give back nothing.
XOXO
Gone
Glad to hear you're doing better, PG! Day by day we heal a little more, but it sure seems to take a long time! Gone's note about our investing so much really gave me food for thought. And what it made me think about is this: My XAP would be the one to say that I was the one who took from him and didn't give anything close in return. That's probably what bothers me most about my A. He doesn't understand that I risked everything for him. He actually believes he gave more to the R than I did. You're so right, Gone. What we do for these guys is pathetic. He's the one who needs to thank me for doing us both a favor by ending it. Live and learn...
Hang tough, PG. Whether it feels like it or not, this is a victory for you!
Love and hugs,
CSN