..Doing the Time Warp....

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Registered: 02-25-2010
..Doing the Time Warp....
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Wed, 08-11-2010 - 9:41pm

Hi All,


When i first came to this board, i felt cheated, i wasnt committed, i felt i had the raw end of the deal.. most tweeners and vets could see this from a mile off i am sure....


I read posts and posts and posts from of all the strong contributors of how they had reached the stage that enough was enough, THEY had the strength to fianlly see their A's for what they were, they could see the frustration, the hopelessness, the viscious cycles and rollercoaster..they made a stand and called NC


New Choices, New Chapter,


New Challenges,

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Registered: 03-17-2010
Thu, 08-12-2010 - 2:41am

BRAVO

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Registered: 06-17-2010
Thu, 08-12-2010 - 8:11am

Hey NC,

WONDERFUL post, very insightful and inspirational to all the newbies on the board.

"Time is our friend, it helps us heal, it helps put distance between then and now"

Absolutely time is our friend! I wouldn't be where I am right now without the wisdom of this board and time as my friend. Stay strong!

MO

MovingON

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Registered: 04-15-2010
Thu, 08-12-2010 - 9:04am

Holy Moly that was one h&ll of a post!


I loved reading every minute of it - my heading was nodding 'yes yes!!!'


Like you shared so beautifully, It doesn't matter

LC/NC since April 14, 2010

"I can be changed by what happens to me. But I refuse to be reduced by it."
— Maya Angelou
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Registered: 06-17-2010
Thu, 08-12-2010 - 9:18am

Great post NC :) Time really is our friend. It's kind of ironic, I've always been a decision maker - it took me a long time, and I don't think I necessarily showed "vision and strength to finish and move on", but I ended up making the decision. I fell more into the "Pissed Beyond Belief" category at first.

Bodhi

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Registered: 12-07-2009
Thu, 08-12-2010 - 9:28am

Great post, NC. One for the HL.


Kudos,

   ~Iddy~ 


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Registered: 07-28-2010
Thu, 08-12-2010 - 9:31am

This is sooo what I needed to read and for that I thank you very, very much. I am waiting for those days when I am thankful he hasnt contacted me and I realize I dont want him!

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Registered: 07-28-2009
Thu, 08-12-2010 - 10:17am

What a great post NC!


Thank you for sharing....

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Registered: 04-20-2009
Thu, 08-12-2010 - 1:24pm

NComps,
Really frickin' great post! Iddy's right; this belongs in the healing library. I am so happy for you to be here, and not _there_.

Oh, but now I have Time Warp stuck in my head and I'm not too grateful for that!

xo
Dee

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Registered: 02-25-2010
Thu, 08-12-2010 - 6:47pm

Good morning all...


i just woke up to read all

New Choices, New Chapter,


New Challenges,