Dont forget to scroll

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Registered: 08-27-2008
Dont forget to scroll
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Sun, 09-27-2009 - 11:10am
I know alot of posters dont always get to scroll down to the Healing Library section of this board. So I thought I would post here to encourage people to check it out. I just posted an entry there which I think alot of us will find helpful.
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Registered: 05-11-2003
Sun, 09-27-2009 - 12:01pm

Thanks. This is perfect timing for me. I keep trying to go 100% NC and believe last night I finally started the ball rolling. I used to believe that with some silence my MM would get some perspective and come running to me, free and available to start our life.


While hope springs eternal and I am going to try to remain positive, I need to realize that the distance I need is

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Registered: 02-05-2009
Sun, 09-27-2009 - 9:50pm

(((lofluv))) welcome to EAS and congratulations on taking of your rose-colored A glasses. You are definitely making the right choice for your happiness. The first weeks are hard but that's what EAS is here for.

>> I used to believe that with some silence my MM would get some perspective and come running to me, free and available to start our life.

I used to think the same thing; my xMM put up the biggest fuss when I ended it - but here we are, over 7 months later and he is still very much married and no where near a D. Trust me, they will keep the same perspective they always had since Day 1.

Please don't hesitate to post, we are here for you!

big hugs,

trixie xo



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