Don't know where this came from

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Registered: 02-04-2004
Don't know where this came from
Fri, 03-19-2004 - 12:52pm
I spoke with my ex's pastor who is going to marry him and his fiance. Told him everything, because I had to get it out. The lies, the deception must stop. I read a previous post here about us wondering why we are obsessed about these guys. We don't know what the truth is, we don't know what's going on. There is so much lying and deception that we as strong intelligent women who are posting here have realized that what we are doing is morally wrong must stand up to these men and tell them so. BY WHATEVER MEANS NECESSARY!!! IT took alot of strength for me to go to his pastor and prove the lies that my ex had told, but I value myself and my family much more than I value his. We have to let these men know that what they are doing to us is not okay, we cannot walk away quietly because otherwise we leave our self esteem behind. IT may be harsh, and others may not approve, but I had to do it. How will these men know what they are doing is wrong if we keep our mouths SHUT?