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A dream of a crush has become a reality!
| Mon, 11-01-2004 - 10:49pm |
I'm in the same situation as many, but mine, my differ, because of the fact it is not yet gone beyond then a k.i.s.s. Not sure how to let this lust go. I never had any sex but we kiss many times. He tells me, one night of lustie sex and that's all, as if nothing happen just one night and go on with our normal life. I would love to have one night and conitue to leave a normal life, but my relationship is to strong of love for me to attempt it. I just couldn't live without myself & without feeling guilty! I don't know what else to do??? Anyone????? After reading all these posts my intentions are to tell him this weekend, by ourselves that, there is noway> I can give in my family life for one night of fantasy. I decided to tell him with all crush and all, that there a goodbye to this desire of A NIGHT OF passion. I also thought, on telling him that he will always be my list> if me and my bf of 8yrs leave each other. Me my bf are not married which has let me to think that he don't love me like I think. My bf he a wonderful man, the perfect man that every women would love to have, but he does not give me the attention of telling me how much I mean to him etc. I do want to give a final goodbye kiss to my fantasy and continue my normal life before it turns into disaster! Anyone have any advice? This crush now can resist me, it weird because I never knew, until the first kiss when he open all his feelings. Anyway, i'm confused..
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atty
Do yourself one really realy big favor and don't do the one night because it will not stop there, trust me on this he will be back for more and your ability to say no will get weaker and weaker, he will dominate and control your life.
I suggest no last meeting no last kiss NOTHING you are playing with real fire and you and your boyfriend will get burnt.
End it via phone or e-maill but don't see this person in person again, end it one time quickly cleanly and then enforce TOTAL NO CONTACT.
Then force your B/F to sit down and have a no holds bared talk with him were you have no secrets about what is missing for you in your relationship, give him a chance to shape up or risk losing your love BUT DON'T BE A CHEATER it will only destroy who you are.
Free
Edited 11/2/2004 11:00 am ET ET by shiningstarxsx
*rolls eyes*
*nod-nod*
Posie x
My sentiments exactly Posie,
We are here for a genuine purpose, because we need help to get through the AFTERMATH OF THE BREAKUP. I think instead of judging her we need to redirect her to the proper board.
Just my opinion..... For those of us going thru termoil today, Wishing lots of strength and peace.
Take Care.
Ladybug
Just posted to you on your thread, lol!
This person has been posting on other boards, Atty, Jellie & I have encountered her before in about 3 different guises/usernames now. I'm certain she does need help, just perhaps not the sort of support we could really give her here.
Wishing you strength & peace,
Posie
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