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A dream of a crush has become a reality!
| Mon, 11-01-2004 - 10:49pm |
I'm in the same situation as many, but mine, my differ, because of the fact it is not yet gone beyond then a k.i.s.s. Not sure how to let this lust go. I never had any sex but we kiss many times. He tells me, one night of lustie sex and that's all, as if nothing happen just one night and go on with our normal life. I would love to have one night and conitue to leave a normal life, but my relationship is to strong of love for me to attempt it. I just couldn't live without myself & without feeling guilty! I don't know what else to do??? Anyone????? After reading all these posts my intentions are to tell him this weekend, by ourselves that, there is noway> I can give in my family life for one night of fantasy. I decided to tell him with all crush and all, that there a goodbye to this desire of A NIGHT OF passion. I also thought, on telling him that he will always be my list> if me and my bf of 8yrs leave each other. Me my bf are not married which has let me to think that he don't love me like I think. My bf he a wonderful man, the perfect man that every women would love to have, but he does not give me the attention of telling me how much I mean to him etc. I do want to give a final goodbye kiss to my fantasy and continue my normal life before it turns into disaster! Anyone have any advice? This crush now can resist me, it weird because I never knew, until the first kiss when he open all his feelings. Anyway, i'm confused..
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This is funny I just wrote you back on my thank you post.
This person does sound like they have issues. I feel for her but she definately is using the wrong board.
Take Care....
DON'T DO IT!!!!!! That is EXACTLY the way my A started!!!! My XMM asked me to make love to him "just one time." I said no, held off, but eventually gave in to repeated requests and my own weakness and stupidity. Of course he didn't want just one time--we continued for over 4 years!!
I read your post and felt desperate to reply since my situation was identical--didn't even take the time to read the other responses. I am sure you heard cautions from many people who had wished they stopped at the point you are at right now. Walk away while you can, and don't allow yourself to be alone with him this weekend when you tell him. That in-person, sexual attraction can be a pretty strong influence. It is not worth the pain and emotional umbalance at the end.
Good luck :-)
Meg
I rarely read other boards (I have enough trouble keeping up with this one) and I don't know if I'd ever have the attention to detail necessary to notice if someone was writing under a bunch of names. I'd like to think we don't have fake postings. That would be a waste of my time to read and reply.
My response still stands...even if the question was fabricated!!!!!!!
Have a great one :-)
Meg
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