Dreams

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Registered: 07-21-2009
Dreams
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Mon, 05-03-2010 - 7:42am

Hi All-


I am posting today becuase I am just so frustrated.

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Registered: 08-11-2009
Wed, 05-05-2010 - 3:50pm

Hi,


I completely understand where you are coming from......i have "lucid dreams" sometimes they are so real to me it confusing when i'm really awake....... i won't go into all the medical stuff i've been through over it........i'm just sympathizing w/ya.

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Registered: 08-06-2007
Wed, 05-05-2010 - 4:51pm

rena, after I read your post I realized I never dream about my husband. Ugh, I wonder if that's a bad sign? Ha.

I remember telling xAP about dreams I had of him and how the dreams stayed with me for a day or two. xAP told me he never dreams and if he had one, he wouldn't remember it. So, I'm wondering - if these AP's don't dream - does that mean not much is bothering them?
Me thinks so.

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Registered: 04-15-2010
Wed, 05-05-2010 - 7:14pm

I dream vividly every night, and I more often than not remember them. I have seen my dreams shifting dramatically as I have transitioned out of the A. I use to dream that he was laughing at me - that I was running through buildings frantically looking for him, but only ever catching a glimpse of him, or that I was watching him and his W be together. Now - I dream quieter heartaches. Like, someone moving into my old office space with him, or of him waving to me. I feel like my subconscious is starting to let the fantasy of us go. I'll admit that it's still scary to me - and that even in my dreams I feel sad about this whole mess.

Ahhhh ... better dreams to come, I'm sure.

TU.

LC/NC since April 14, 2010

"I can be changed by what happens to me. But I refuse to be reduced by it."
— Maya Angelou

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