dropped me twice, came back twice???

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Registered: 01-17-2010
dropped me twice, came back twice???
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Sun, 01-17-2010 - 5:14pm

myShadow (cuz surely this isn't the real me)

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Registered: 01-16-2010
Sun, 01-17-2010 - 6:17pm

Sorry you are going through this right now...I know it's hard.

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Registered: 12-07-2009
Sun, 01-17-2010 - 6:18pm

MS,


It sounds to me like he is having one of his *busy* days, as you put it. It also seems to me that you are totally overlooking the fact that whether it's one email or a whole slue of them, you are still in an affair. Are you planning on ending it? If not, this isn't the board to be on. Now....if you want advice on how to end your affair, keep reading, learning, and relating to what others are doing and going through so you can put away your cell phone, stop staring at the computer for an email,

   ~Iddy~ 


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Registered: 09-25-2006
Sun, 01-17-2010 - 7:55pm

It seems that you are his option and he is your priority.

Onward and upward.
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Registered: 01-17-2010
Sun, 01-17-2010 - 8:16pm

Thank you for those words Energy and I think after reading and reading and reading through the various posts on a few of the boards I think I'm going to start counting today as day one of NC.

myShadow (cuz surely this isn't the real me)

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Registered: 09-25-2006
Mon, 01-18-2010 - 5:42am

I'm glad I could help you out in not having to deal with the extreme pain and confusion of having an affair.

Onward and upward.
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Registered: 01-17-2010
Mon, 01-18-2010 - 9:15am

I guess I've been sitting on the fence with which way to go.

myShadow (cuz surely this isn't the real me)

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Registered: 09-08-2004
Mon, 01-18-2010 - 9:33am
In my experience, there is no 'being friends' with an exAP. For one thing, it's very hard to make a 'friendship' out of something that was based on lies and stolen moments and physical attraction.