EAS and privacy?
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EAS and privacy?
| Sun, 07-25-2010 - 4:03pm |
Every time I post on here, I get into trouble with my H. He scours my computer and tries to find anything I am up to. Understandable, but I just wondered how in the heck all of y'all post stuff on here without your SO finding it.
I have had to erase all my other posts. H came in and woke me up last night yelling at me. I really need EAS. Any ideas?
~~Serenity~~
Better than a thousand hollow words is one word that brings peace. ---Buddha

1. Clear your browsing history.
2. If he knows your name on the site, he can just log in and see what you have posted.
3. Does he have a keylogger on your computer?
We only miss what could have been.
We only miss what could have been. I know I don't miss what it really was.
Hi Serenity -
I'm sorry he yelled at you. I'm sure if you clear your browser history at home it will just make him more suspicious. Try your public library - most of them have computers for the public to use.
Bodhi
Oh Serenity,
I so sorry to read about your night last night. I hope you find a way to post here!
My hubby knows I post here. He knows my moniker and is often in the same room when I’m on line posting. Sometimes he texts me from work and asks me if I’m saving the world today? His way of asking if I’m on IV posting.
Whether you think you can or you think you can't you are probably right. A parrot can repeat what it has learned but the mark of true intelligence is applying what is learned.
Thanks, E1, for your as-always kind words. That is awesome that your H is so supportive. And I know it was a joke but you really are saving the world, one marriage at a time. :)
My H is just really fragile right now and zeroes in on the parts of the posts where I say I still care about AP. I do still care for him and wish him well, but I don't want to be with him. I want to rebuild my M.
Hopefully my H will feel better about EAS soon. I will keep reading your posts in the meantime...thanks again for all your help.
~~Serenity~~
Better than a thousand hollow words is one word that brings peace. ---Buddha
~~Serenity~~
Better than a thousand hollow words is one word that brings peace. ---Buddha
~~Serenity~~
Better than a thousand hollow words is one word that brings peace. ---Buddha
~~Serenity~~
Better than a thousand hollow words is one word that brings peace. ---Buddha
Thanks, Bodhi. I have been reading your other stuff and it is helping so much to hear your thoughts.
The library is a good idea. :)
~~Serenity~~
Better than a thousand hollow words is one word that brings peace. ---Buddha
~~Serenity~~
Better than a thousand hollow words is one word that brings peace. ---Buddha
Hi Serenity,
My DH is totally aware of my presence on the boards, and still reads my posts (and posts himself on occasion).
Hi Kim!!!
Great advice as always with emphasis on openness and communication. Love it!
The boards have spurred a lot of open conversation between me and my H. Things that I don’t believe we would have otherwise had an opportunity to talk about openly. However I found the boards two years after D-day so there was a lot of healing that transpired both individually and in the M before I started posting.
It’s good to hear a perspective from someone who was posting on IV before and after D-day and how they handled posting here and how they handled their spouse’s feelings about it.
Much love and big hugs,
E1
Whether you think you can or you think you can't you are probably right. A parrot can repeat what it has learned but the mark of true intelligence is applying what is learned.