Emotional Affair Only

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Registered: 06-09-2009
Emotional Affair Only
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Mon, 11-09-2009 - 6:51pm

I am curious to know if there is anyone on this board that had an emotional affair only?

We have not and of course now will never meet --Especially after reading all the D-Day posts -

I was also wondering if it was odd that I became so strongly attached to someone I sort of knew many years ago.

For me as the fog lifts and I refocus strongly on my marriage, it feels like my X-EAP and I had an entire relationship via text and email -- friends, lovers, marriage fantasies, then came the misunderstandings and the dramas that happen when a relationship is dying and all that's left is the addiction... And even though the fog is lifting I still feel bewildered about the whole thing...

I guess I'm still messed up a bit, huh?

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Registered: 07-24-2005
Mon, 11-09-2009 - 10:48pm

Hi dincal


I don't think it's odd to become so attached to someone emotionally.