Ended it...was it harsh?

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-02-2009
Ended it...was it harsh?
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Tue, 12-08-2009 - 7:03pm

Been in a FWB type A for a few years now and I ended it last week.

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-07-2009
Tue, 12-08-2009 - 8:19pm

TOG,


When it comes to affairs, there are no rules. If it wasn't working for you anymore, then there was nothing wrong with replying to his txt saying so. If it bothered him, he could have stepped up and asked why, but from what you described, there seems to have been little emotional intimacy going on. How you avoided that bullet, inquiring minds would like to know. ;-)


I would suggest that you just leave it alone. Don't let your conscience start acting up now. If there was no guilt being FWB's then there's no reason for it coming into play now, KWIM? He'll get over it....or already has. But how about you? Are you regretting your decision? I, for one, hope that you are feeling much better about yourself for ending such a

   ~Iddy~ 


iVillage Member
Registered: 11-19-2009
Wed, 12-09-2009 - 1:00pm
Wow, that sounds just like my situation.
iVillage Member
Registered: 07-02-2009
Wed, 12-09-2009 - 7:04pm

Iddy..you asked how I avoided the emotional intimacy?

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-08-2009
Wed, 12-09-2009 - 8:20pm
I'm beginning to think that NO woman can have a "physical only" affair. I think we just fool ourselves because sooner or later emotions do come into play.