Ended my Affair
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Ended my Affair
| Mon, 12-13-2010 - 1:09pm |
Thanks to all of you who responded to my original post and to those who private messaged me.
This morning, I sent a message to my ex to let him know that I have had a WTF moment and realized that I've been behaving selfishly and immaturely. I told him that I was ending it. Furthermore, i told him we were in fantasy land and both know that even if it weren't for my husband and son, it wouldn't have worked.
I have cried my eyes out over this, but I will survive. And i totally will be hanging out here with you guys for a while.
Thanks again. I sincerely appreciate it!
This morning, I sent a message to my ex to let him know that I have had a WTF moment and realized that I've been behaving selfishly and immaturely. I told him that I was ending it. Furthermore, i told him we were in fantasy land and both know that even if it weren't for my husband and son, it wouldn't have worked.
I have cried my eyes out over this, but I will survive. And i totally will be hanging out here with you guys for a while.
Thanks again. I sincerely appreciate it!

Now to figure out how I'm going to get over what I've done to my family.... *sigh*
That is wonderful news!!
I saw your second post after I posted.
Hi Sweetie and (((Welcome))) to your new life and your new family.
Dear Megan,
I was just reading the rest of the responses to your other thread and kept thinking, where is she? Gosh, I hope she chimes in and lets us know how she felt about everything that was said. .....
AND HERE YOU ARE! You have ended it, and I can't tell you how much respect I have for you right now because I know that wasn't an easy thing to do, but yay for you, honey. You just spared yourself months of pain by cutting it off now. I know you are hurting and that goes with the territory, but after a couple of weeks you are going to be so proud of yourself for calling the shots. When we are the "Enders," we spare ourselves that painful rejection that comes when they pull the rug out. We also regain control again, something we lose while in an A.
Megan,
I'm so proud of you. Now that you've both had your say, take the added precaution by blocking him. Heartache is right: when he needs another ego stroke, he is likely to contact you again. This is an entirely selfish man who thought nothing of pursuing a married
Block and walk, sweetie. Do it for your own peace of mind.
(((Hugs)))
Megan,
Hi Megan,
Hope you are doing ok with your NC and know you have made the greatest decision for both you and your family.